Hey sorry about the changing of V Extra Booster 10: The Mysterious Fortune and V Extra Booster 03: ULTRARARE MIRACLE COLLECTION just because the plant tokens can only be used for Neo Nector I thought it would make sense to add that sorry about that
Is there a limit to how many pages can be renamed within a specify amount of time? I found that after renaming a certain amount of pages that I'm prevented from renaming more pages usually for around a minute.
I’ll say you don’t need dysphoria to be transgender. All that’s needed is to identify as a different gender than the one you were assigned at birth. Why does one need to suffer to be valid? Can one not just go “I wasn’t unhappy with being the gender I was assigned at birth but I’m happier identifying as a different one”?
passerby straight comment* Can we fast forward to the point where whatever orientation you are doesn't get used against you as an argument and we just argue and call each other poopooheads because we dislike one another as individuals with differing opinions regardless of gender?
Unfortunately, we cannot do that. My point is, is that it’s just a shame that such a wonderful thing like being transgender would require your life to suck first. It’s a big thing in the trans community from what I hear.
For a long time, society has been treating transgender people so horribly that it’s hard to adjust to one that doesn’t do it as much. It’s pretty much been exclusively dysphoria back then as the trans experience but now that lots of trans kids are born to accepting parents, there’s less dysphoria.
There isn’t some big moment where they cry out “I wish I was a girl!!!!” but rather “I’d be happier as a girl”. Both are a valid trans experience.
I acknowledge that I say all this as a cisgender gay man but part of pride is being happy with being born the way you are and acknowledging that society treats those of us who are different like crap just for being different and that that is most of any sort of suffering such an identity brings. In short, I’m saying that any discontentment comes from others treating you badly/poor education rather than anything to do with said identity.
Watch parents attempting to change their little girl/boy's gender despite the other parent protesting and see if its a wonderful thing... Not saying it cannot be done right, I have a good example in my own extended family (changed after becoming an adult), but it can be done extremely bad (doing it prior to becoming an adult) that it results in mental damage over the long run...
If the kid really wants it then they know what they want. Surgery before adulthood is absurdly rare. It’s usually just hormone therapy so puberty doesn’t make the person eventually become a really hairy woman or a guy looking like he’s always in his first suit lol. “My body, My choice” and all that comes into play here too. That does include accepting consequences that come afterwards, but more people regret not doing it than doing it.
And yeah, cases where one parent approves but the other disapproves can be really tricky and often involve courts, unfortunately. There was a case over here in Texas where the jury sided with the mother support her trans daughter’s transition that really caused Republicans in that state and a few others to flip their lid. A Kentucky lawmaker is even introducing a bill that says allowing kids to transition is akin to abuse. She even says “I usually support parental rights” and crap like that. It’s this whole thing.
Anywho, the depressing thing is, is how LGBTQ folks keep being used as essentially political footballs and on the individual level there’s serious damage. You think that transgender girl is liking her dad right now? Her parents have joint custody (hence the court battle) but the damage to the relationship has been done and no amount of laws or outrage or rulings or really anything is gonna change that. Maybe in due time, but that’s what is happening right now.
And notice how it’s her dad’s fault with his hangups that’s causing the rift and not her being transgender. He could have chosen to accept it and he didn’t. Even if he felt it was wrong all that wasn’t gonna change. He’s gonna have to live with the choices he made.
I sure did go on quite a rant here, but I just feel strongly about letting people choose their own destiny and all. And of course being a good and supportive ally.
FutureKnightX: I love how you say the father is to blame, yet there might be implication that the mother guildtripped the kid or made it believe it was wrong. I am not fully aware of the situation of that case, but things aren't just that clearcut.
As for kids taking surgery... its been stated (in research) that children can get mental damage from this whole procedure, so much so that it can end up resulting in self death due to regret or never ever finding its proper gender. Its a hefty procedure, and it SHOULD be thought thoroughly by the child itself ONCE it becomes an adult.
Is there somehting wrong currently with the Neo Nectar (V Series) Page? It seems like none of the hyperlinks work, and it seems like it's just a page with nothing to interact with. I noticed this around 9:15 PM MST on 10/21/19